tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1689381332259322103.post9011538650982708642..comments2008-10-13T17:54:40.463-04:00Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16576201339765283688noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1689381332259322103.post-78714614421309974442008-10-13T15:49:00.000-04:002008-10-13T15:49:00.000-04:00The thing is: it's unreasonable for guys to assume buying a girl a drink will lead to anything more than that.<BR/><BR/>But guys are offering to buy you a drink for ONE reason: they think you are attractive and hope to at the very least get your number if not ya know, get to sleep with you.<BR/><BR/>By accepting the drink you don't owe guys anything, but of course, the point is they are buying you the drink not to be nice or because you look smart, but because they hope this will one day, at some point lead to naked time.<BR/><BR/>It's just true, so better to not accept the drink, if you don't see yourself capable of fancying the buyer.Joshuahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10839812267536911245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1689381332259322103.post-11260471076781404232008-10-09T00:25:00.000-04:002008-10-09T00:25:00.000-04:00Refusal of free drinks has been my bar philosophy for years, and it does reduce the number of barside pests I encounter. <BR/><BR/>But it also puts the onus on women, as usual, to be on the defense against the bad behavior of some men. Can anything else be done to school the lads?tanglethishttp://tanglethis.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.com