January 12, 2011
With just my eyeballs, I can tell him if I think the person I'm talking to is boring, if I want him to get me another beer while he's on the way to the kitchen, and if my favorite song has just come on over the stereo. We're more in sync than Joey Fatone and JC Chavez!
Conversely, I can deduce pretty quickly if a guy isn't right for me based on these eyeball conversations. If he doesn't pick up on my non-verbal cues then we clearly aren't a good fit. It's a quick way to weed out the duds. You don't need perfect vision to see that.