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What is this fuckery? Guys, why do you do this? Of all the Bonerkillers I've ever written about, guys who refuse to walk with me while we're walking somewhere together would be at the top of the list as one of the worst offenses he could do. It is not only rude, but it's belittling and disrespectful. I'm getting angry just thinking about it.
An old boyfriend did this to me constantly. He refused to walk with me anywhere we went. Say we pulled up to a restaurant; he'd get out of his car and bolt to the front door, ignoring my pleas to wait for me so we could walk together. Or, we'd go to the mall and he'd freakin' powerwalk ten feet ahead of me. I hated it. We'd get in fights about it regularly. Have you ever gotten in a fight about walking with someone? It's seriously the dumbest fight of all time. "OF ALL TIME! -Kanye West."
An old boyfriend did this to me constantly. He refused to walk with me anywhere we went. Say we pulled up to a restaurant; he'd get out of his car and bolt to the front door, ignoring my pleas to wait for me so we could walk together. Or, we'd go to the mall and he'd freakin' powerwalk ten feet ahead of me. I hated it. We'd get in fights about it regularly. Have you ever gotten in a fight about walking with someone? It's seriously the dumbest fight of all time. "OF ALL TIME! -Kanye West."
A guy did this to me recently and I pretty much lost my mind. I slowed down a bit to see if he'd notice that I wasn't keeping up with his pace and he didn't. I watched him zip up the street, leaving me behind. He didn't even care that I wasn't keeping up. You know what I did next? I stopped, turned around and walked away. Fuck it. If he can't be bothered to walk with me like a respectful human being then I can't be bothered to follow his crazy ass. He can motor on up the street and find some other girl 'cause I'm not 17 anymore and I'm not putting up with this shit.
16 comments:
Awesome deGrasse Tyson gif.
Ha! Thank you.
so true. I don't understand how after several direct and clear comments about how much I HATE it, he still doesn't get it! Do I need a leash? We are going to the SAME PLACE. We're going to the same checkout and I have the cart, are you saving a spot in line???? WTF?
I once walked down the subway steps & rode home before such a fucker (who'd crossed the street & kept walking) had any idea I was gone.
Walk faster.
Men have places to be and things to do. We walk quickly so we can get to those places and do those things. We are ambitious. Keep up.
so totally identify. my ex-bf would do this to me constantly. even when HIS friends were visiting and we would walk places he would leave us all behind. made me feel a little better, actually, that it wasn't just me.
I find it fantastic that you turned around and walked the other direction. Brava!
As always, love your stuff.
Hate that so much too!!! My ex boyfriend would charge across the street on the yellow or red and then while waiting for the light to change so I could cross, he would stand on the other side looking at me like I was stupid for not walking into traffic/holding him up. UGH.
Notice how all these stories are about EX boyfriends. Men, take note: You'll get dumped if you keep doing this crap!
People who don't walk with the group or partner have social issues. Dudes need to slow down a bit, and ladies need to wear comfortable enough shoes.
You are an absolute legend for walking off on him without a word. Brilliant!
Can we find a happy medium? Maybe speed your walk up a little bit? I find it difficult to walk slow. I actually have to concentrate on walking slow.
I think you misunderstood: it's not that I walk slow, it's that he doesn't want to walk with me. I have lots of friends and we all walk around like a happy gang chatting and laughing like normal people. So when a guy somehow decides that he's not interested in doing that even when I explicitly ask him to walk with me, I lose my mind a little bit.
Oh, and thanks, Rash! It felt good to walk away, like I finally stood up for myself. Teenager me would've been proud.
It's NOT about a guy having things to do, places to go, or people to see. It's about a guy who has no respect for women. My EX BOYFRIEND did the same thing. I knew I was in big trouble when we visited his mother and he spoke to her so disrespectfully. You've heard it before ladies - "The way a guy treats his mother and sisters is the way he'll treat you." Again, THIS IS MY EX-BOYFRIEND. Bob Boys are you reading this?
Wait, guys actually do this? To me that just...doesn't compute. Why would you go somewhere with someone if you aren't interested in actually, you know, spending the time with them? I could see doing that if you were seriously pissed or maybe were running late and wanted to make sure you reserved the [whatever] in time, but otherwise WTF?
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